The First Day of Spring 2020

Around the year 4500 BCE, ancient people in the Middle East discovered that the plant growing on the edges of waterways had multiple uses. Among them were clothes, shelter, food, baskets…and later on, paper.  The papyrus plants gave birth to writing many years later. We benefited from the move from oral tradition to written tradition as stories, poems, songs, got put onto scrolls........ in what later became the Bible.

What people frequently wrote about were their observations of a world in chaos and the yearning for order. From Homer's The Odyssey to Jeremiah and Luke, ancient people wrote about a world around them rattling with conflicts and uncertainties. Collective anxiety and depression were present in the writings dating back to, well, the beginning of writing…dare I say, the beginning of human consciousness.

What we are experiencing today, therefore, is on one level, not new.  In a globally interconnected world, however, everything is amplified. Cable News, Facebook, Texting, and E-mail allow us to share our collective anxiety and possibly to intensify it.  The purpose of this letter is to offer an antidote........not to the Coronavirus itself, but a remedy for the escalation of collective anxiety.

Ancient writings from around the world, including the oldest narratives of the Hebrew Bible, make clear that the loss of shared values and meaning in culture cause people to suffer both psychologically and spiritually. True today, as back then, is the realization that a growing sense of despair and deep uncertainty about the future of the world is a dominant theme of life.  

That’s my starting point:

·      Life is Difficult. 

·      Life has Suffering. 

·      Life is Not Fair.

Our way forward begins with an honest acknowledgment of that reality. The real reason the cross is the central symbol of the Christian faith is the honest reminder that suffering is the wound we all carry as humans.  We are meaning-seeking people keenly aware that loss, grief, fear, and the termination of life, surround us. Facing this reality is Step One in our Twelve Step Program of Life. We begin here because it is true.

Our knee jerk reaction to this truth is to attempt to exercise some semblance of control over the unfolding events that remind us of our frailty. How else can one explain the excessive purchases of toilet paper? People are attempting to control one small aspect of life in a world run amuck. Truth be told, our attempts at control, while they may bring us temporary relief, do not address the underlying angst of these days.

“But, Bishop, tell me what does? What brings relief?”

Ah, the desire for the quick fix....... the easy answer.......... the magic pill.

We live in the age of the quick fix as one Rabbi reminded us years ago. There must be an answer. As if on some secret gnostic quest for the hidden truth, we are all looking for the one thing that will bring relief to this angst and pain we are experiencing.  I'll come back to this, but first, I offer an observation about Holy Communion.

In the last week, the anxiety drive within our tradition (Lutheran movement of Christianity) is centering around Holy Communion. Suddenly, all across the country, ELCA Lutheran clergy in particular (but also a few lay people) are clamoring for a quick fix to our dilemma around the Sacrament of Holy Communion. There is a sense in these online diatribes that there must be an immediate solution. 

While thoughtful conversations around communion and emerging new understandings of community are legitimate topics for reading, writing and reflection, let's do that together, but not as a quick fix. Instead, I'm most intrigued by the way this topic has sucked up all the oxygen in the room.  Instead of congregations focusing their energy on building intentional communities of connectedness (see below for more), there is a headlong dive into "we need to get communion out to people NOW.

 

And yet, do we not also believe that the "Word" is a Means of Grace as well?

 

In New England, I have been discouraging our churches from practicing any of the proposed ideas around Holy Communion.  These include, but are not limited to:  Drive-Thru Communion, Virtual Communion, and Amazon Drone Delivery of Communion.  While I understand the drive, I'm also keenly aware that in the church, we tend to bless a practice too quickly.   Questions arise for me: 

·      After this is all done, will we normalize a regular online communion practice, later adding virtual baptisms? 

·      Will clergy of the near future opt-out of in-person communion visits because, well, it's more convenient via Zoom?

·      And what of those, mostly older, who do not have internet access or comfort with digital tools?

Instead, I've been encouraging two acts that will serve us better in this immediate and temporary situation. These two areas of focus are not quick-fix solutions, but they may address the underlying anxiety our people are experiencing in these times, namely a loss of community and a loss of meaning.

Humanity is community. We are nothing, if we do not have each other. Knowing and believing this as a core value, some of our pastors have quickly moved toward shepherding or small group models. This Ancient/Future Church practice has all of the congregation divided into 3-4 households with one leader charged with contacting them twice a week. The leader stays in touch as they embody the Holy Spirit's glue in our temporarily disconnected body. As needs arise, that leader reports back to the Pastor. 

This is not new. Jethro advised Moses in this way some 3,000 years ago. But in our time, a time of extreme loneliness (even before Covid19 sent us all to our rooms), people are yearning for community.  

·      Could these groups schedule periodic Zoom chats or conference calls? 

·      Could lay people pray for one another? 

·      Could lay people attend to the fundamental core values of our faith? 

The early church was known not for its elaborate rationalizing of peculiar communion practices, but rather for its care for the widow, the orphan, and the dispossessed. Congregations focusing their energy on establishing this kind of care community would be living and dynamic sacraments. Is this not what Martin Luther highlighted in the confessions "mutual conversation and consolation of the brethren" as a kind of Means of Grace or sacramental participation in the life of God?

Humans are meaning-seeking creatures. Lutherans value Word and Sacrament, but in recent years and recent days, they have fallen prey to that ancient foil of dualism.  In this case, we have divided Word from Sacrament as if they are two separate Means of Grace. I've seen scribblings in various Facebook posts as people reactively clamor to get the wafers delivered by any means necessary. What about the Word? Is not the Word also a form of Grace? Do we not still hold to the hope of a kick-ass Law/Gospel sermon?  Could that not be delivered in writing, on YouTube, or even in a Pastoral visit with a member via Facetime? Meaning-seeking creatures are hungry for words, stories, and vignettes that remind them of the central antidote to despair, namely hope.

In these days of despair, as in the days of past despair, we find ways to move toward hope. That is the work of the Holy Spirit. She is a hope-driven being. Friends, this has been the way humans have made it through 10,000 years of civilization. Reading about some of the less than competent Kings of the Old Testament is a potent reminder that things have gone wrong in the past, and yet, hope prevailed.

Jesus the Christ presents the ultimate hope........ not because of some magic salvific formula that includes testimonials of devotion, but because he is the center of life. The Hope of the Cross and Resurrection, is that life has lasting and robust hope.

We are in 'temporary' times. Let's gain some perspective here.  This, too, shall pass. We have been here before, albeit not quite in this way. We are not at the end. I am wondering if it might be the beginning of something quite hopeful.  I'll write about that in my next letter. 

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The Times we are in

The Times we are In

Last Monday, I wrote to you and said, “I have confidence in You.”

That still holds true!!!

I continue to be impressed with the way you are tending to the effects of the coronavirus pandemic in your various ministries.  You are making wise decisions, including your leadership in those decisions. and communicating effectively. 

Thank you!!!

I am hearing stories of congregations, campus ministries, chaplains, lay leaders, pastors and deacons tending to those most vulnerable. I wish you could hear what I’m hearing! You would feel so proud and enjoy a renewed sense of the strength of character of New England Lutherans.

Thank you!!!!

Some thoughts..........

  • There is no shame in erring on the side of caution. It is not necessary to make all decisions right now.  Feel free to make decisions incrementally. 

  • This is an unprecedented trying time in which everyone is doing the best they can.  We all need to keep that at the forefront in our interactions with others.

  • Let’s be mindful of the need to “look down the road”.    It’s easy to get consumed in what’s happening right now.  Know with God’s help and guidance all of us will get through this. There will be life..... and worship...... and summer BBQs..... and baseball yet to come. 

  • Know that as we care for others as best we can, there is wisdom and value in caring for ourselves as well.  Be sure to do so!  All of us need to have a good night’s rest, eat well, pray and meditate, talk with family and friends, exercise and of course, wash our hands.

I trust your ability to make decisions that are best for your ministry settings. If you wish to consult with the Associates to the Bishop or me, feel free to contact us.

In Christ

 

Bishop James Hazelwood

Coronavirus Letter

Congregations and Leaders in the New England Synod,

I have confidence in you!

I believe you to be wise, thoughtful and faithful people!

I’m aware that many members of congregations are concerned and wondering how to respond now as the coronavirus is among us.  My thoughts on this matter are really quite simple:

1.    Be thoughtful, not overly reactive.  Exercise wisdom.

2.    Consult the CDC website for advice.

3.    Consult the ELCA Document, “Worship in Times of Public Health Concerns” for suggestions.  Here’s the link.

4.    Use your discretion regarding congregational life.

In the midst of any challenging situation, there is a mathematical equation to which I always refer:

               Event       =     Outcome

            Response

The “Event” can be anything, for example, from a budget shortfall.... to a family dynamic.... to a virus. These are real events. The “Response” refers to the response of the person, organization, or organism.

If you recall your 8th grade math class, the bottom factor, the denominator, has significant influence on the outcome. We may not be able to change the event, but we can have an impact through our response.

All this is to say, that you as leaders have an important role in this or any destabilizing event:  If you are calm, wise and thoughtful, that will impact how an event plays out in your congregation.

Therefore, in this time of the coronavirus, I encourage you to balance the need for thoughtful decisions around worship practices and congregational gatherings, with the need for calm and less reactive responses.

Yes, this virus is serious for people who have compromised immune systems, breathing conditions, and are frail.  What is also true is that:

a) younger persons do not seem to be impacted in large numbers

b) a very high percentage of infected people recover, and

c) the vast majority of U.S. Americans have not contracted this virus at this time.

Yes, it’s serious.... but let’s be calm and remember the most frequently used words of Jesus in the New Testament, “Fear not.”

Sincerely,

Bishop James Hazelwood

Hold the Date for April 18, 2020

April 18, 2020 the New England Synod School of Lay Ministry is sponsoring a learning event at Emanuel Lutheran Church in Manchester, CT. Come join us Join us at School of Lay Ministry's Lifelong Learning Event Saturday, April 18 9 a.m. - 2:30 p.m. Emanuel Lutheran Church 60 Church St., Manchester, Conn. The New England Synod School of Lay Ministry is hosting a lifelong learning event that is open to everyone across the synod. Bishop Hazelwood and Associates to the Bishop Sara Anderson and Steven Wilco speak about the event in the above video. Interested? Please rsvp to jjauss@comcast.net to reserve your spot.

A Spirituality of Baseball

For some of you the prospect of Spring training brings the hope that all will be right in the world, and order will prevail over chaos and (fill in your team) will have a chance this year. For others, it's well, who cares. But at least it's March and that means. the weather is warming. And even if bats and balls are not our thing, we are grateful and hopeful.

I have deep roots in Baseball. My father and I shared a love of the game. He took me to my first game in the 1960s. We were at Dodger Stadium in Los Angeles, where we watched Don Drysdale pitch one of his last games. Later I played for a little league team that had the proud record of going 0-18. We had a gentile older coach who just seemed to always smile no matter what happened on the field. That was the beginning and end of my playing days, but the game stuck.

There is something Kairos about Baseball. There is no clock. You play to the last out in the ninth inning. The game embodies a paradox in that the defense starts each play with the ball. It’s a game of individuals, yet they play as a team. This all seems so philosophical, biblical and counter-cultural.

Yes, there are other sports, but baseball. I don’t know. It just has a quiet rhythm. You can’t be in a hurry watching baseball. You also have to be willing to live with a lot of tension.

I think baseball is spiritual because it’s so much like life.

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Resources for Understanding and Addressing the Racial Divide

Our partnership with the Lilly Funded Project in New England with the UCC and the Episcopal Church has another resource. Through the Together We Thrive project, we are pleased to announce a new resource group being formed for those pastors and deacons wishing to understand and address anti-racism. If this is something in which you have an interest, see the announcement below and contact Rev. Heather Mabrouk at ramsey-mabroukh@sneucc.org.

Anti-Racism Group:

A clergy accountability group is being formed for clergy who want to regularly engage with a racially mixed group of experienced anti-racist practitioners. The group gatherings will be led by Dr. Donique McIntosh, the Minister for Racial Justice for the Southern New England Conference of the United Church of Christ and another facilitator, who is yet TBD.

In addition, I offer you these resources within our synod:

Over the years, I’ve observed the most effective way for our congregations to wrestle with the dynamics of racism is by learning about the local work that people are doing in this area. This is not to discredit broader initiatives that have value as well. What I’ve seen happening in some of our congregations and communities gives me hope that the slow persistent work being done has the potential to change our communities.

This resource guide consists primarily of individuals you may wish to contact as you consider how best to engage your congregation in areas of anti-racism training. Obviously, it is not an exhaustive list, but it is a beginning. If you have suggestions you’d like to add, please send them to office@nesynod.org, so we can update this paper. The intent is to make this a living document that is updated often.

I’ve intentionally chosen to make this a list of people, as opposed to publications and media. The people here can offer first-hand experience, organizations they have worked with, and wisdom from what has been productive and what has been less helpful.

I pray that the resources below can be of help in this important area in our synod.

Sincerely in Christ,

Bishop James Hazelwood

Anti-Racism Resource Persons 

Pastor Arnold Thomas has led a months-long series on "Racism in America” in Jericho, Vermont. He is more than happy to talk with people about what resources he has used and what worked best. I will be doing a podcast interview with Arnold later in March 2020. pastorthomas@goodshepherdjericho.org

Pastor Linda Forsberg and her husband Ted are now trained co-facilitators in this field. They are available for workshops with interested groups.pastorlindaforsberg@gmail.com

Lay Minister Jeanette Harris and Pastor Marjo Anderson have worked together in Bridgeport, CT, for years. They have experience working as colleagues in a congregation together and may be helpful resources. marjoanderson@aol.comand jharris524@yahoo.com

Pastor Nathan Pipho is doing extensive work in his community and congregation and has offered to be a resource person to congregations wishing to explore this work. Among the resources he has found most helpful, he recommends Sparkhouse Publishing “Dialogues on Race.” He serves as Pastor at Trinity in Worcester, MA npipho@trinityworc.org

Greater Hartford Congregations engaging in Anti-Racism Training through GHIAA. Anti-Racism training is one of several foci of this community organizing effort in the Hartford area. Contact Pastor Douglas Barclay at pastor@concordiamanchester.org or Pastor Chris Dion prchrisd@sbcglobal.net.

The New England Synod provides grants for efforts in this area through the “I Have a Dream” Fund. Information can be found athttps://www.nelutherans.org/resources/documents

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Elections as Reflections

After months, though it seems like years, of pre-election activities, the 2020 Presidential campaign begins on Monday with the Iowa Caucus. The good news that a pre-caucus poll was canceled due to irregularities allows for something concrete to actually begin...real people going into rooms and casting real ballots.

On Wednesday, the likely acquittal of the President in his Impeachment means that after three years of..., how does one even come up with a single word to define this presidency? After three years it all comes down to real people casting real ballots.

Whoever the nominee of the democratic party will be is not known. That person and his or her running mate will force all of us into a choice. The choice will actually be quite clear. Yes, despite all of the distractions that will come our way in the next nine months the choice will come down one question. What kind of a country do we want to live in?

While policies and personnel matter, I've come to the conclusion that our desires for the future will be determined in how we vote next November. Do we want a country that values a patriotic understanding of democracy, where all are indeed created equal? or Do we prefer a country that values power and profit, where those of means are more equal? In reality, Americans have long had a secret undisclosed conflict between those two questions. On the one hand, we have valued democracy but secretly longed for power and profit as long as our side won. We wanted it both ways and our way.

But now in the era of Trump, the secret is out from under the shadows. Trump has brought to light the internal conflict, namely that we want what we want. A kind of selfishness that centers on both our greed and our insecurities. We always knew it was there lurking in the shadows, now it's just out in the open.

At a recent lecture on "Crucial Conversations", the speaker posed the question "How did you get what you want as a child?" The group's answers revealed much we already know about human beings and the institutions we lead.

- Temper tantrums

- Manipulative Silence

- Conniving strategy

- Stubbornness

- Schmoozing

While US American Politics has always exhibited various iterations of these behaviors, never before have we witnessed such an open and brazen display.

A President is many things, but what is rarely talked about in the course of a campaign is the role of President as a model citizen, as the setter of tone, as the embodiment of a future hope. The question is always one of which comes first: Does the president set the tone or reflect the tone? In other words, are we in this or any election, making a choice that best reflects who we are as a people or who we hope to become as a people.

We will learn the answer to that question in November.

I have made a few decisions as to how I will approach the coming nine months. What follows are some convictions that I hope to return to, as navigators to help find a way through the coming display of those childish behaviors.

1. I plan to write what I think and believe as opposed to reposting or sharing what others say/write/think. This will force me to slow down and consider what I believe, digest information and articulate my own convictions.

2. I plan to regularly ask the question "What is best for my grandchildren's children?" This concretizes and forces longer-term thinking about our world.

3. I plan to respond to people with a reflection on the Anais Nin quote I have come to value, "People don't see things as they are, they see things as we are." This, I hope, will force me to remember that we all speak out of our deepest needs, hurts, desires. It may make me more attentive.

4. Finally, an old wise analyst once said to me, "Most people are doing the best they can with who they are and what brought them to this point."

I'll attempt, as best I can, to articulate what I think and believe. Why do this? Mostly to help me navigate these times we are in, seek some semblance of mental and emotional stability and exercise a practice of hope.

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Stretch, Flex and Push

I've increasingly come to the conclusion that the real reason God has called me to this work as Bishop is to stretch people, increase flexibility and push the norms. To that end, I recruited 8 people from our new Synod Worship, Preaching & Spiritual Life team to travel with me to the Calvin University Worship Symposium this week. Yes, Lutherans at a Pan-Christian event sponsored by Calvinists. (I may soon be deposed, defrocked & dethroned for such heresy). 

We had a few days of soaking in a whole range of perspectives that challenged us, irritated us, inspired us and, for me renewed my hope going forward. This event was far more diverse in age, race and denominational representation than most similar events. Ironically, I heard more Luther and Bonhoeffer quotes from Baptist preachers than typical. I learned from Honduran Baptists, Brazilian Lutherans, African American Church of God.

I sang my heart out and clapped my hands to the pounding drums of Urban Gospel Hip Hop, laughed with colleagues, deconstructed and reconstructed ideas around worship and preaching.

There is no simple conclusion other than the church is better, richer and healthier when we are standing in the varied streams of our multiple expressions.

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Looking Back. Looking Forward

This is a more personal reflection blog post, rather than social commentary.

2019 - Among the most significant events of this past year, a year I turned 60, has been. the realization that I’m finally comfortable with my vocational calling in life. Like Jacob wrestling with the angelic being in Genesis or Jeremiah resisting the call of Yahweh, I’ve consistently fought this call as a Pastor. After nearly 34 years, I finally got over it. Something shifted. I’m not sure what it was, but I settled into my own skin and realized that this is what I meant to do and be.

Much of that shift. has centered around a realization that I can and have done this work in my own way. For years I wondered what people thought, or whether or not my ideas would be accepted in the more narrow confines of a doctrinal oriented faith. Now, I have little concern for the opinion of others, as well as a desire to express a freer understanding of faith.

2020 - This newfound narrative of freedom sets me up for projects and undertakings that further a more adventurous faith and life. The adventures I anticipate for the coming year a more internal as opposed to external travels. Among these, I highlight:

  • A new book, tentatively titled Life is Not Fair: The Book of Job for our Time. This project will explore the ancient narrative of why life doesn’t go as planned. It will include a similar approach from my last book, where I invite people to contribute their own stories. More info to come later in January.

  • A return to photography as a means of creative expression. It’s been years since I ended my professional career, and I’ve missed it. Not the business, but photography as art. So I hope to bring a camera along on my day to day travels. I’ll keep you posted.

  • A time to study the intersection of Depth Psychology, Anthropology, and Christian Spirituality. This is really a project for the second half of 2020, but I’m already carving out attention for this endeavor. A really helpful book has been Backpacking with the Saints by Belden Lane.

As you look back and look forward, I hope you find what you are looking for as well as the One who is looking for You. What are you considering?

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas

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Last Friday evening on the Winter Solstice, I joined two friends for a small concert at the local Library. Chris and Mike were the musicians and I was the narrator, invited to bring some readings and images to sprinkle between their fine songs. Among my selections was this poem by Kentucky farmer, essayist, and poet Wendell Berry. It seems right for these times.
 

The Peace of Wild Things

When despair for the world grows in me
and I wake in the night at the least sound
in fear of what my life and my children’s lives may be,
I go and lie down where the wood drake
rests in his beauty on the water, and the great heron feeds.
I come into the peace of wild things
who do not tax their lives with forethought
of grief. I come into the presence of still water.
And I feel above me the day-blind stars
waiting with their light. For a time
I rest in the grace of the world, and am free.

I’ll be back in the New Year with more blog posts, podcasts and news about my next writing project.

What's Christmas all about?

Did you see this fine article by Bishop N.T. Wright. It’s out now in Time magazine? You can read it here or below.

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The New Testament Doesn’t Say What Most People Think It Does About Heaven 

BY N.T. WRIGHT 

DECEMBER 16, 2019

N. T. Wright is the Professor of New Testament and Early Christianity at the University of St Andrews, a Senior Research Fellow at Wycliffe Hall, Oxford University and the author of over 80 books, including The New Testament in Its World.

One of the central stories of the Bible, many people believe, is that there is a heaven and an earth and that human souls have been exiled from heaven and are serving out time here on earth until they can return. Indeed, for most modern Christians, the idea of “going to heaven when you die” is not simply one belief among others, but the one that seems to give a point to it all.

But the people who believed in that kind of “heaven” when the New Testament was written were not the early Christians. They were the “Middle Platonists” — people like Plutarch (a younger contemporary of St Paul who was a philosopher, biographer, essayist and pagan priest in Delphi). To understand what the first followers of Jesus believed about what happens after death, we need to read the New Testament in its own world — the world of Jewish hope, of Roman imperialism and of Greek thought.

The followers of the Jesus-movement that grew up in that complex environment saw “heaven” and “earth” — God’s space and ours, if you like — as the twin halves of God’s good creation. Rather than rescuing people from the latter in order to reach the former, the creator God would finally bring heaven and earth together in a great act of new creation, completing the original creative purpose by healing the entire cosmos of its ancient ills. They believed that God would then raise his people from the dead, to share in — and, indeed, to share his stewardship over — this rescued and renewed creation. And they believed all this because of Jesus.

They believed that with the resurrection of Jesus this new creation had already been launched. Jesus embodied in himself the perfect fusion of “heaven” and “earth.” In Jesus, therefore, the ancient Jewish hope had come true at last. The point was not for us to “go to heaven,” but for the life of heaven to arrive on earth. Jesus taught his followers to pray: “Thy kingdom come on earth as in heaven.” From as early as the third century, some Christian teachers tried to blend this with types of the Platonic belief, generating the idea of “leaving earth and going to heaven,” which became mainstream by the Middle Ages. But Jesus’ first followers never went that route.

Israel’s scriptures had long promised that God would come back in person to dwell with his people for ever. The early Christians picked this up: “The Word became flesh,” declares John [1:14], “and dwelt in our midst.” The word for “dwelt” means, literally, “tabernacled,” “pitched his tent” — alluding to the wilderness “tabernacle” in the time of Moses and the Temple built by Solomon. Studying the New Testament historically, in its own world (as opposed to squashing and chopping it to fit with our own expectations), shows that the first Christians believed not that they would “go to heaven when they died,” but that, in Jesus, God had come to live with them.

That was the lens through which they saw the hope of the world. The book of Revelation ends, not with souls going up to heaven, but with the New Jerusalem coming down to earth, so that “the dwelling of God is with humans.” The whole creation, declares St. Paul, will be set free from its slavery to corruption, to enjoy God’s intended freedom. God will then be “all in all.” It’s hard for us moderns to grasp this: so many hymns, prayers and sermons still speak of us “going to heaven.” But it makes historical sense, and sheds light on everything else.

What then was the personal hope for Jesus’ followers? Ultimately, resurrection — a new and immortal physical body in God’s new creation. But, after death and before that final reality, a period of blissful rest. “Today,” says Jesus to the brigand alongside him, “you will be with me in Paradise.” “My desire,” says St. Paul, facing possible execution, “is to depart and be with the Messiah, which is far better.” “In my father’s house,” Jesus assured his followers, “are many waiting-rooms.” These are not the final destination. They are the temporary resting-place, ahead of the ultimate new creation. 

Historical study — reading the New Testament in its own world — thus brings surprises that can have an impact on modern Christianity, too. Perhaps the most important is a new, or rather very old, way of seeing the Christian mission. If the only point is to save souls from the wreck of the world, so they can leave and go to heaven, why bother to make this world a better place? But if God is going to do for the whole creation what he did for Jesus in his resurrection — to bring them back, here on earth — then those who have been rescued by the gospel are called to play a part, right now, in the advance renewal of the world.


God will put the whole world right, this worldview says, and in “justification” he puts people right, by the gospel, to be part of his putting-right project for the world. Christian mission includes bringing real advance signs of new creation into the present world: in healing, in justice, in beauty, in celebrating the new creation and lamenting the continuing pain of the old.

The scriptures always promised that when the life of heaven came to earth through the work of Israel’s Messiah, the weak and the vulnerable would receive special care and protection, and the desert would blossom like the rose. Care for the poor and the planet then becomes central, not peripheral, for those who intend to live in faith and hope, by the Spirit, between the resurrection of Jesus and the coming renewal of all things.

 

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Readers of this blog will know that I am attempting to capture a “Yes, I am Spiritual and Religious” sentiment. I believe it’s possible to be both. In that spirit, (pun intended) I thought I’d offer up some suggestions for you. What follows are the voices of those who influence me. Whose work I find refreshing. Who seem to be yearning for something the embraces the everydayness of a rich and full life.

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The Music of Over the Rhine. Quite honestly, no one captures the pain and delight of this time of year. You can learn more and listen to their music on their website here. And, if you are inspired, they’ve got a collection of their Christmas music on sale. You’ll find that here.

Emily Carson new book Holy Everything. It’s as if Emily and I were walking down the same street, and passed each other coming in and out of our favorite coffee shop. This book shares so many similarities to my own, yet her voice is distinctive from mine. I love the way she genuinely wants people to enter into the spiritual and religious world, largely through her Midwest environment. It’s a read!

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The Blue Zones Kitchen. If you don’t think food is an expression of the holy, well, you must not be paying attention. Dan Buettner has just released this new book of recipes from around the world. The Blue Zones are the places where people live the longest. I’ve enjoyed recipes via the E-News, but now I’m looking forward to this collection in a cookbook.

Cyber Week Special on Books & Cards

24 hours left 

Just a quick reminder

The half-off sale on Everyday Spirituality Books and Conversation cards expire on Friday, December 6.

Amazon has the book list at $9.97 for Print, $4.99 for Kindle and $8.97 for the Audio Book. You can purchase individual copies by clicking here.

Our special Five Pack Bundle is good through tomorrow as well. 5 Books, with 5 Conversation Cards plus an Audiobook for $50 plus shipping. These bundles have been more popular than we thought, so we ordered more books. You can order the Bundle pack through our Office. Just email Martha at mwhyte@nesynod.org

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Embracing Thanksgiving

On our kitchen table, I've set out a small stack of note cards. They are all blank and calling to me to fill them with words of appreciation for people I know. This year I'm mindful of those people who make our lives easier and smoother.

So I'm writing short notes to the guy who picks up our trash each week, the woman at the seafood counter and postal clerk I see once a week. Yes, I know, they get paid. for their work, but are they appreciated?

Maybe I'm writing to them so I can remind myself that an attitude of appreciation and thanksgiving shapes my mind and soul.

Whatever the reason, this week is as good as any to offer thanksgiving.

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Money

I just released episode 47 of the podcast, which is chapter seven from my book. This chapter was my attempt to explore money as an expression of everyday spirituality.

I’ve spent a bit of time and energy thinking, researching and exploring the topic of money for the past seven years. Initially this grew out of my interest in stewardship and generosity. The book Ask, Thank, tell by Charles Lane was instrumental in that time period and continues to be the single best resource. I just interviewed him in Episode 46.

But my interest began to evolve as I learned about a new generation of people grappling with money. The Minimalists, Mr. Money Mustache and other Gen-X and millennials began looking at money from a less acquisitive position. The controversial Dave Ramsey also played a role in this period. But, I kept circling back to the work of Richard Foster and Mark Allen Powell as people who wrote and thought about money from a perspective of the great religious traditions.

I’ve come to a rather simple formula when it comes to money. (Simple to write about, hard to live into)

  • Live below your income (spend less than you earn)

  • Give generously (10.3% is my current level)

  • Save like a pack rat (a goal of 15% is necessary for retirement these days)

In reality, the first bullet point is the key to it all. I’m not one to focus on worrying about my Starbucks spending. I’ve learned it’s better to four on the Big expenses. Debt, Cars & Housing. I’ve found keeping those three as low as possible has the most impact.

Fortunately, through an 18 month self imposed austerity program, we eliminated all of our debt (except the mortgage which is next) I’m now driving a car that I own free and clear, and hope to keep til the end of my heavy driving demand job. This leaves our mortgage as our only major expense.

That 18 month austerity plan meant no extra spending on everything (including Starbucks). It also meant selling a bunch of crap in Yard Sales, on Amazon and elsewhere. But when we got to the end and everything was paid off - student loans, credit cards, autos, etc. WOW! What a relief.

There is a ton written on the area of finance, and some of it is good, some of it is noise. But, the key in my mind is resisting the power of the US consumer socio-economic myth. Fighting the monster called more. That is the heart of it all. And yes, that’s very much a spiritual engagement, that is probably connected with battling the principalities and powers of our time.

Oh, and if I’ve suggest here that I’ve mastered it, conquered it and now achieved some state of nirvana. Sorry, didn’t intend to suggest that at all. I’ve made progress, but just now an email arrived seducing me with a new flashy product that is soooooo tempting.

The battle, the journey the march continues.

The Spirituality of Organizing, Pragmatism and Justice.

There is a Spirituality of Pragmatic Organizing.

I can already hear the objections in your head. 

 “You’ve got to be kidding.  How in the world can pragmatism and organizing be connected with the spiritual?”

I accept your challenge, Sir Gallahad. But, let's get some definitions on the page first. Spirituality for me is not some woo-woo idea limited to sunsets, and uncomfortable cross-legged poses and encounter retreat weekends with gurus and chocolate. (What's the deal with chocolate?  I don't know, but I seem to be craving more of it in this post-Halloween season)  

Spirituality is all about a connection with the holy, the sacred, the numinous, the eternal…ok, let's go with God. But why do we reserve this for 'special' moments? As I've argued again and again on this blog, and in my book, spiritual happens in the everyday, ordinary, messy, confusing, painful, and delightful moments of life.

Pragmatism is the implementation of an idea. Yes, the move from concept to reality is pragmatism. When people ask me about leadership, I've come to use the definition I heard several years ago: Getting from here to there. More than two-thirds of US Americans describe themselves as pragmatic, as opposed to flexible or conserving. It’s in the makeup of our culture. The author and psychologist James Hollis describes a time when he was meeting with a Swiss analyst in Zurich. Hollis thought she was making fun of him, but then realized it was a compliment when she said, "You Americans, leave your jobs, sell your homes and come over here to study. Just like that. We Swiss would think of the idea for ten years, and then probably not do it. That tendency to take matters into your own hands is what makes you so admirable." What one person might call impulsive, this person describes an action. 

I’ll confess to being a card-carrying task-oriented pragmatist.  

Oh sure, I've got ideas, dreams, and whims that circulate constantly, but if I don't take one or two of them and make a move to a concrete reality, I'll begin to go crazy. Years ago, I confessed this to a mentor who told me, "You're an incarnationalist.” This was before seminary training, so I had to look it up. It turns out. It's not a word. But the idea is one who takes concepts and brings them to life.

Those of us in the Jesus tradition know of the incarnation as the theological concept of the eternal brought to life in the temporal. The Christmas narrative of the Holy Logos of the Divine birthed into the here and now. Jesus is the incarnation of God. And don't you love that this all happened in a manger with barn animals, hay and well, just a bunch of poop on the floor, no doubt? 

I'm kinds of winding my way toward the main point. Pragmatic organizing is spiritual. It’s the act of making something real. That’s a sort of creation. No, wait, it is creation. You are creating something when you bring something into being.

  • The idea for a meal into a prepared supper with friends

  • Hopes for a child into a healthy baby

  • Dreams of a meaningful career into a job that sings for you

  • Thoughts about improving the neighborhood to replacing slum landlords

Which brings me to the event that inspired this article.

Last week I was in Hartford, Connecticut, for the launching of the Greater Hartford Interfaith Action Alliance (GHIAA). I concept three years ago became a reality as 1500 persons from every possible faith tradition gathered to form GHIAA. The goals are clear and concrete:

  • Education

  • Sensible Gun Laws

  • Housing

  • Welfare Liens

  • Anti-Racism Work

You can read more about it here. You can see media coverage here and here.

This effort took three years, thousands of one to one meetings, multiple pieces of training, and a bunch of pragmatic idealists. Several of our Pastors were involved in this project for many years. Pastor Douglas Barclay, chief among them, spoke at the event regarding the toll of gun violence. His speech was succinct and powerful. He outlined GHIAA's commitment to passing a law to prevent future senseless deaths. But, other pragmatic idealists were there as well, including Kristian Kohler, Priscilla Melendez, Daryl Urban, Chris Dion, Carol Stoneman. There were others too. These church leaders worked with rabbis, Imams, Priests to incarnate an idea that God's people can organize to impact social injustices directly.

When I saw this, I thought, "here is something! This is really something. Finally, the church is doing, acting, incarnating."  It's significant because most of the time, the church is good at talking or writing. But, talking about problems or even conversing about solutions is often just that…conversation. But, here, after three years of conversations, interviews, and hopes was the incarnation of the idea of justice.

The results have already shown themselves as three slum landlords have been forced to give up their property, and new owners are already making repairs and improving the living quarters for mothers, fathers, children, and babies. The Hartford City Council voted to address this crisis going forward

So, what do you think? Is pragmatic organizing an expression of the holy?  I think so.

 

 

 

People Want to Tell Their Stories

The folks over at Faith+Lead ran this article of mine last week.

People want to hear stories, and they want to tell their own stories.

That’s pretty well understood. North Americans spend millions of dollars per year on stories as recorded in books, displayed on Netflix, or presented in live performances. But what about spiritual stories? Are we really ready to tell and hear those stories?

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Much to my surprise, I discovered the answer was a resounding yes. In preparation for writing a book on modern spirituality, I put out a call for people’s stories of encounters with the divine and holy moments. I was hoping for five or ten. Instead, I received over 200 responses. These stories varied from little vignettes to profound descriptions of vulnerable moments in their lives.

The spiritual stories I received included moments in the natural world, such as this one, when a grandfather brought a young boy to a cornfield before dawn just to lie there: “‘Shh, just listen,’ [he said]. I lay there on my back in my grandfather’s cornfield in Iowa. Eventually, I heard something. It was the sound of the corn growing. God’s creation was alive and coming alive at that moment, and I realized a sacred presence in it all.”

Other stories were more mundane: walking, hosting a meal, singing, even wearing a rock concert T-shirt. The range of responses was surprising and heartwarming. While I couldn’t use all 200 submissions, I was able to gather enough to write 27 separate chapters. Each one reflects on a common theme, such as breathing, cooking, or tasting, as well as those moments in life that are more challenging, such as grieving, disagreeing, or losing.

Non-church-attending folks often say that they’re “spiritual but not religious”–but perhaps an equally vexing problem is its opposite, as described by an early reader of the book: “It’s for those who are religious but not spiritual.” 

Everyday spirituality can help the active or semi-active person of faith rediscover a spirituality they may have lost in all the potlucks, committee meetings, and property concerns. My efforts are to help people realize that God is present in all of life, not just the Sunday morning gathering around the altar and baptismal font. Can we recover a sense of the holy in our careers, our hobbies, our time with friends and family? This might require shifting how we have typically discussed spirituality in the church over the past several generations, but it’s also a return to an earlier way the church taught such practices.

More recently, our pattern has been to design curricula around spiritual practices such as devotional reading, meditation, and prayer or Bible study. Don’t get me wrong, this is valuable, but in reality, only about 10 percent of people engage in these activities. I’m looking for spirituality for the other 90 percent–those of us who believe God is alive in our bicycling, our gardening, and our spending time with friends, but who might not have experience reflecting on or talking about it. 

Perhaps my greatest joy is discovering how eager people are to share their stories once you introduce this topic. To that end, I’ve developed a series of questions or conversation starters that people can answer in small groups or as part their personal reflection, such as:

  • Describe a time when you were surprised…by love, children, God (pick one).

  • There have been too many times in my life when…

  • What’s something in life that doesn’t make sense?

These aren’t questions that are particularly spiritual in an overt sense. Or are they? The intent is to prompt people to tell a story about their lives, to help them realize that they are indeed more spiritual in their everyday lives than they realized.
Along with the book, I created a card game that can be used to spark such conversations. I call it Everyday Spirituality. It’s a hashtag (#everydayspirituality), a book, a card game, but mostly it’s a way of life–an opportunity for all of us to share and listen to sacred stories

The Cards Have Arrived



It's a Blustery Day here in Rhode Island, and a chance to update you on some resources for the Everyday Spirituality Book.

  • The Resource Guide which contains a Study Guide and ideas for Worship plus a Stewardship Appeal can be found here at this link. Click here I understand some of you may not have received this info, so I'm providing it here. I'm working to fix the auto registration. My apologies. Also, I'll be updating this Resource Guide later this fall, and I'll let you know when it's updated.

  • The Conversation Cards have finally arrived. The slow boat from China, yes actually true, docked in LA and then the cards made the long drive cross country. If you want a set email my Assistant Martha at mwhyte@nesynod.org and she will let you know about costs. I include a guide for how to use the cards personally, in a small group or even in a larger group of 500 people. They are fun and creative conversation prompts for Everyday Spirituality storytelling.

  • The AudioBook is being released. Well, it's actually already available everywhere. Audiobooks.com, Apple Books, Google Play etc. Amazon says it will be available in the next three days as an Audible download. More and more people are "reading" books via Audio, so I decided to record the book.

  • Book Tour: I'll be in Vernon Connecticut this Sunday at Trinity Lutheranat 3:00 p.m. then at the Serendipity Cafe, in Maynard, MA on Saturday, October 26 at 6:00 p.m.



More info always at www.everydayspiritualitybook.com

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